Chapter Five
Chapter 5 - September 16, 2022.
It has been 11 long years since Richard left his body and is now my Guardian Angel! I miss him every day and have connected to him with the support of my Spiritual Advisor. Sadness comes over me at any moment because I have such vivid memories of our short life together. I have mentioned previously that he was my best friend! And he was. I was only 19 when I had him and thank God I was. I was able to have a mother/child relationship I yearned for in my childhood.
I am an “only” child from a family of 6. I have two sisters, and three brothers and we are not in touch with one another. Our upbringing was very challenging and thank goodness I was number 6 because I was able to see what I did not want. My mom, who I respect and love, did the best she could. She was diagnosed with deep depression and was not emotionally able to give me the love and attention I craved. My siblings were older than I and I was considered the “pest”. So I created my own invisible family – had tea parties, made dirt pies, played games, etc. At a very young age, I took care of myself and made sure that I had fun in all that I did. I was very active in school and sports. My mom was not an affectionate person, she never hugged me, played with me, had conversations, etc.
I was very grateful that I was able to give my son a mother who was involved in every aspect of his life. We traveled, rode bikes, roller skated, shopped, cub scouts, etc. – I loved spending every waking moment with him.
This year he would have been 47 years old! That really doesn’t seem possible. I imagine what he would look like. Still handsome and probably more distinguished.
My health is still improving although there are some challenges that I am looking into with specialists. What I have discovered is that we must have a Team to take care of us. Living the best life is what I want and am constantly working towards.
I have added another modality to my exercise routine. It’s Gyrotonics! I was introduced to this type of movement a year ago and it has helped the stiffness; joint pain; lower back and knees immensely. I was not able to straddle the equipment so the exercises were modified so I could still accomplish the program. I can now straddle the bench with still limits and this is a big step for me. Having your legs frozen closed can be annoying! There is amazing progress and it is slow. Patience is my new best friend.
To be continued....